Saturday, March 22, 2008

Knock knock, anyone still here? I'm sooooooo sorry. Much much much has happened and is going on. For one we need to come up with a new name for kpuff she's slimmed down considerably (she's not ill or anything I think it's just cause she's more active). She's still not in school :(, I promise that will happen by her 2nd birthday which is next month!!

Mr. and I are no more, long long story don't want to discuss it on here so that's that.

Business has been quite good so thank God for that, I'm also working on pet project which I will share with you all soon, looking forward to that. My christmas and new year were fantastic both my sisters were around with their husbands/significant others.

For those of you who warned me, Kpuff has finally learnt to say "NO" as a result her favorite answer to everything is a loud "NO!!!!"....lol, we need to fix that.

That's about it for now, have a Happy Easter everyone!

24 comments:

Anonymous said...

So sorry to hear about you and Mr. I hope you're both ok and Kpuff too. God bless.

Zena said...

yaaayyyyy!!she's back..

Ru serious? really? I'm soo sorry to hear about that.

It's great to have you back tho, I'm spreading the word.

Nigerian Drama Queen said...

Lol@ Kpuffs new word (NO)

NaijaScorpio said...

You've got the terrible two's coming up. I doubt you'll be able to make her stop saying NO any time soon. That's their favorite word.

Sorry to hear about you and ur husband.

Anonymous said...

How are you? Sorry to hear about you and Mr. Hope you are doing ok and feeling ok. Your baby is growing up.
Hope to hear from you soon

Anonymous said...

I read your blog every now and then and just decided to check it out after a long time. My dear, I don't want to say sorry because I'm in the same boat although circumstances leading to separation may be different. For me, it is thank God I came out alive. What I'll tell you is God never fails.

9jamommy said...

@anonymous (1), thanks we're fine :)

@zena...yey yey!, lol...I'll try not to dissapear for so long anymore. Yep it's quite unfortunate, but hey.

@nigeriandramaqueen...lol, she even strings together complete sentences with just no "NO NO NO!!!"..lol

@sting...this is sooo what I don't want to hear...lol, well hopefully it doesn't get any worse.

@dee's mum...this is BA? right? Yeah we're all doing good thanks. How've you been?

@anonymous (2)...thanks a lot, sorry to hear you're in a similar predicament, whatever the reasons I know it's not easy. Take care.

♥♫♪nyemoni♫♪♥ said...

Awwww, I hope you are fine? I'm sending e-hugs your way, wishing you and yours the very best life has to offer! God bless!

Mama4 said...

My love to you and kpuff,its going to be okay in jesus name

Anonymous said...

Hi,

Really enjoyed reading your blog. Kpuff sounds cute and I don't think you should change it whether she's lost weight or not. It's just so unique and sounds like a she has a lot of fun. 'Bless her.
Sorry to hear about you and your partner. Hope there's a silver lining soon.

9jamommy said...

Thanks Nyemoni :)

@mama4...AMEN!!..lol

@anonymous...thanks. I guess we can reduce her name from two kpuffs to one..lol.

Diva-Delicious said...

i'm so sorry to hear about the mr. i have been looking forward to reading from u since you took your hiatus. I hope Kpuff is holding on just as are as well.

Anonymous said...

Hi,

Sorry to hear about your marriage which brings to the fore the recent increase in marriage breakdown amongst Nigerians.

I am particularly worried about this issue because I almost found myself in that position but I realised that the problems stemmed from the following:

a. High expectations of our spouses
b. Low tolerance for each other
c. Low tolerance for in-laws
d. A recent trend to apply western ideologies to Nigerian marriages (this doesn't work most time because most of us were born and raised in a different culture). This applies to the men who want to eat their cake and have it; or women who are financially independent and find it difficult to be submissive.

I believe you can still resolve these issues through prayers.

Simi Speaks said...

have always silently read your blog! glad u r back!!

so sorry to hear about ur divorce.. :-(

looking frwrd to reading more! dont leave o. :-)

9jamommy said...

@diva-delicious....thanks dear, it's so nice to read all these positive comments, kpuff is doing just fine

@anonymous...lol...low tolerance definitely sounds about right, not trying to make light of the situation though. It's wonderful that you could resolve issues with your husband, somehow I don't see that happening in my case, it's difficult to explain without going into detail which I don't want to do, thanks a lot for the advice though.

@simi speaks...that's soo funny I'm a silent reader of your blog..lol. Thanks, don't worry not leaving anytime soon.

ababoypart2 said...

Wow..welcome back!
Sorry to hear about the other things. There is always a reason for things...Remain blessed and stay positive & strong

Arewa said...

U are back!!*BBBBIIIGGG HUG*
i MISSED U LIKE HAMATTAN PAWPAW...LOL
Sorry to haer abt Mr but its all good that u are ok and seem to be handling ur business. My Diva can now say NO....i told u oohhh....the girl is a trooper. Give her a big kiss for me. its good to have u back hon x x x x

NikkiSab said...

Sorry about u n ur hubby. I wish tins will work out somehow and so u all could b 1 big family. I hope u take care of urself. 1st time here.

Nwanyi Ocha said...

welcome backkkkk - missed you loadsss

lol @ kpuff kpuff

so sorry bout you and mr
.... stay strong

9jamommy said...

@ababoypart2....thanks :), I thought I wasn't making it back..lol. Hope your family is doing growth

@arewa....daaarling!!! I missed you tooo!! don't worry I'm doing as well as I possibly can given the circumstances :). Your diva is even telling us to go away....chei, sufferhead..lol.

@nikkisab....Thanks nikki

@nwayi ocha....awww thanks dear, missed you as well, hope you're doing great.

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

Welcome back!!!!

So, she now says "No" with gusto and abandon, eh? Good for you. lol!

Sorry about the Mr.

God dey. But it is wonderful to see you in these parts again.

Anonymous said...

chimo! sorry o.

KemiMamaLopes said...

The wanderer returns :) Hope you and yours are well.

KAM BABY said...

Aww soo sorry about u and Mr.

I'm happy u have kpuff (Wat a cute name). The terrible twos ain't that bad.

Nice blog..first time here, i'll be back!