Don't you just hate it when you have friends that don't get along? Somehow I always end up in these predicaments, very annoying I tell you. I want to do stuff this weekend with everyone, but now I have to segment my time and spend it separately with each of them so no one has an attitude and everyone's happy!
I have a friend who screwed my cousins man, so of course they both don't like each other and I can't really blame them, but at the same time, it's like get over it already this happened ages ago, the guy is probably off screwing some more friends, cousins, ....etc. Why can't we all just get along!!
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i hate being in the middle of drama like that! well think about this way, you'll have more fun cos you'll be doing a bunch of different things. If you all went together, you'd only have fun doing one or two things :)
have fun this weekend, i plan on having some fun myself, by force...by force i'm rocking first fridays!
lol the guy is off screwing some mo friends cousins... etc. man r man different from woman have a nice weekend
Oh oh, caught in the middle of it all. Have a wonderful weekend.
happy easter mami... lol@the friends thing.. a lot of my groups of friends don't really like each other.. but the good thing is that they can usually hang when i'm there
@chichi...lol @ rocking by force, well I ended up hanging with both of them at the same time, shit I didn't want to be scuttling between places...it wasn't as bad as I anticipated.
@diary of a g....lol..thanks I had a good weekend, hope you did too.
@calabar_gal...thanks :)
@overwhelmed naija babe...thanks babe :) you too (I know I'm so late...lol). That's cool that your friends will hang just because you're there...
LOL...Hilarious...Women and drama..Poor you though stuck in the middle
Hey mami, how are you doing? hope everything is iite with you
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I don't have a problem if my friends don't all like each other, as long as they are civil to each one when I am there, that's fine. I have an old friend who isn't greatly liked by one or two relatives and friends (she's really sweet by people tend to get impatient with her sometimes... with her reasoning). What I try to curb are nasty comments, which actually hardly ever get said and if I think one comment is too harsh, I laugh and say " abeg, leave XXXX alone". However, they are all civil. I don't have many friends ( about 5 or 6 in total, while others are friends of friends) and I pick mine very carefully. I for one do not like or feel comfortable with snobbish ladies so I can proudly say that those 5 or 6 friends are definitely not stuck-up.
Still in be in the middle of it all is no fun....
you're on your own there o. very much on your own. nothing splits a family faster than cheddar and intercourse. and no, your friend and cousin will never ever get along.
strangely a couple of my friends did this a while ago i.e. screwed each other's girlfriends/boyfriends. it was a criss-cross thing that started when one guy (mr A) had been neglecting his girlfriend (miss C) for too long. his friend (mr B) comforted her one afternoon and ended up getting the goods. bad blood spilled, but done quietly.
a few months later mr A made all square when he screwed miss D (mr B's girlfriend). what was bizarre was that they were all a tight-knit group, we're talking best friends here. 10 years later and they're all still friends. admittedly, we were kids when this hapened. in the high stakes world of marriages and families, this would never fly.
let's just accept that your people will always be enemies and move on. even if bobo is off screwing the entire world, you don't want it to happen close to home. if na you nko?
us men sha, we too waka.
on the other note, its always awkward when your friends don't get along. i hang with 2 different groups of friends who have never gelled, regardless how many times i have tried to bring them together. they aren't enemies, they're just different, and that affects the way they relate to each other. at mass gatherings, i'm the one in the middle. not pretty at all.
i feel you. blessed are the peacemakers sha....
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